“I dont actually feel comfortable being anyone’s anything, you know. Relationships are messy and people’s feelings get hurt.”
— 500 Days of Summer
Just last night, I was able to watch a movie entitled “500 Days of Summer.” At first, it was just a typical love story but before I watched it, I read some comments/reviews and accordingly to them, this movie is worth all the tears. Yes, I can certainly prove this statement. I am wrong when I said that it was a typical love story. It was a very heartbreaking story.
The story is about a boy, who’s hopeless romantic and a girl, who’s afraid of commitment. The boy believes in love while the girl doesn’t believe in hearts and flowers. A boy who’s very ordinary and a girl who’s extraordinary; one who’s willing to take a risk and someone who’s afraid of love; one who’s a soldier for love and the other one is someone who’s just looking for fun. So, the agreed to have the “new kind” of relationship nowadays…it’s called the “CASUAL THINGY”. Just like other casual relationships, they just have fun, enjoy each others company and of course, no commitment. No feelings involved. You can do whatever you want.
Unfortunately, the boy has fallen to the girl. That’s where the problem started. They kinda broke up. FO. For him, she’s his girlfriend but the girl doesn’t want to commit. I guess, we all experienced this kind of emotion. You are afraid of what you’re feeling because you simply don’t want to get hurt. You want to save yourself simply because you didn’t want to get your heartbroken again.
Frustrating as it may seem, the twist of this story was so painful. The girl who’s afraid to commit has been married to other boy. The scene wherein they talk to each other on boy’s favorite spot, it is so heartbreaking. 😦 “You know what sucks? Realizing that everything you believe in is complete and utter bullshit.” Yes, it was all BS as hell.
“People change. Feelings change. It doesn’t mean that the love ones shared wasn’t true and real. It simply just means that sometimes when people grow, they grow apart.”
Every start has it’s own ending. For every door that closes, there’s a window that will open. Though you are experiencing pain, fear and heartache now, do not forget that in the right time, everything will be okay. You’ll gonna see the sun. You’ll going to see that rainbow. Stay strong. 🙂 One day, someone will come to your life and make you realize why it didn’t work out with the one you loved first.
Just like Tom & Summer’s story, we cannot get what we want because it is not’s God’s plan. Believe that someday, someone will be there to appreciate you., to love you, to take the risk for you. You are worthy to be loved. In the most unexpected day & time, the right one will come. For Tom, it is just a start of another season…which is Autumn. ❤
Below are the top quotes that I like from this movie that’s worth all the tears:
“I’m trying really hard not to get hurt again.”
“I really do hope that you’re happy.”
“There’s no such thing as love. It’s a fantasy.
“People should be able to say how they feel. How they really feel, Not, you know, some words that some strangers put in their mouth.”
This movie is definitely a must watch and just please be ready for some tissues. 🙂
Have a great weekend!
All the love always,
ICIA x